WANITA INDONESIA dan KARTINI


KETIKA KAMI BERDIRI DI SINI ....
KETIKA KAMI, WANITA INDONESIA YANG BERPENDIDIKAN, BERKARYA DAN BERKELUARGA ...
BERBAHAGIA DALAM MEMILIH, MELANGKAH DAN MEMUTUSKAN MASA DEPAN DAN CITA-CITA NYA ....

KODRATNYA SEBAGAI WANITA DAN RASA HORMAT KEPADA BUDAYA DAN KEWAJIBANNYA .... MEMPERINDAH WANITA INDONESIA INI DALAM MENJALANKAN TANGGUNG JAWABNYA SEBAGAI ISTRI, SEBAGAI IBU , SEBAGAI TEMAN DAN SEBAGAI DIRINYA SENDIRI YANG MENJAGA MARTABATNYA ......

KINI KAMI ADALAH BANYAK ....
DARI HANYA BEBERAPA PAHLAWAN PENDIDIKAN DAN PEJUANG WANITA PENDAHULUNYA ....

WANITA-WANITA PENDAHULU YANG TANGGUH, SANTUN DALAM BERMASYARAKAT DAN BERTUTUR .....

MENAPAKKAN KAKI-KAKINYA PADA JALAN-JALAN YANG MASIH BERBATU DAN TERJAL, MENGULURKAN TANGAN DAN PEMIKIRANNYA, MEMBAGI PENGETAHUAN DAN ADABNYA, KEPADA ANAK SERTA CUCU, BUYUT DAN CANGGAH WANITANYA SERAYA BERKATA :

"CAH AYU, NENG GEULIS, NAK DARO NAN ELOK, NONA MANIS, SERAPLAH ILMU SEBANYAK-BANYAKNYA, AMALKAN SEBAIK-BAIKNYA, RAIHLAH CITA-CITAMU, SESUAI DENGAN FITRAHMU ..."

KARTINI ADALAH SALAH SATU DARI BEBERAPA PAHLAWAN PENDIDIKAN WANITA INDONESIA...

PUTRI BANGSAWAN YANG TAHU BETUL MENGGUNAKAN KESEMPATANNYA ,SEBAGAI PUTRI BUPATI JEPARA YANG BERBAHASA INTERNASIONAL, MERAMBAH DUNIA MANCA UNTUK BERTUKAR PENDAPAT, MENYERAP, MEMILAH DAN MENYARING PENGETAHUAN YANG BAIK DARI DARI KAWAN-KAWAN PENA BELANDA NYA, YANG DIKEMUDIAN HARI MENJADI KUNTUM BUNGA PENDIDIKAN KEPUTRIAN INDONESIA YANG MEMANJANGKAN MASA SEKOLAH WANITA INDONESIA, PENDEKAR YANG PATUT DIPANUT WANITA INDONESIA ....

DIMANA KITA TIDAK PERLU BERTANYA PADA JAMAN YANG MANA WANITA INDONESIA SEBAIKNYA HIDUP, JAMAN KARTINI KAH ATAU JAMAN SEKARANG KAH?
KARENA KEDUA JAMAN ITU MEMPUNYAI ARTI YANG SAMA BAIKNYA BAGI WANITA INDONESIA.

YANG TERDAHULU ADALAH YANG MEMBENTUK ADAB WANITA INDONESIA DAN YANG SEKARANG ADALAH YANG MEMBENTUK KESEIMBANGAN JIWA DAN KEHIDUPAN WANITA INDONESIA SEHINGGA MEEKA SELALU BERBAHAGIA DALAM BATIN DAN LAHIRNYA ....

TERIMA KASIHKU PULA PADA PAHLAWAN PENDIDIKAN INDONESIA WANITA LAINNYA : DEWI SARTIKA, CHRISTINA MARTHA TIAHAHU, CUT NYA' DIEN
Bunda 21 April 2008


BE MINE FOREVER ...........................


be mine forever........as I am always yours forever ...

HARD WORKING



often you proudly exposed yourself
that you are the only one who work hard,
or you are the busiest person ever....
ask those persons on the pictures above,

they will say :

"working is not a pride but a responsibility,
without working we might not continue living,
nothing to complain ,
because we cannot depend on anybody else"

QUOTES FOR BETTER TOMORROWS

time is like a river....
you cannot touch the same water twice....
because the flow that has passed will never come again....
enjoy every moment of your life ....
when we wake up in the morning
we have two simple choices
go back to sleep and continue dreaming
or wake up and chase those dreams
the choice is absolutely yours

busy ... busy ... busy

when you keep saying you are busy
then you are never free
when you keep saying you have no time
then you will never have it
when you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow
postpones drag your tomorrow in a cancellation

do not make promises when you are in joy
do not reply when you are sad
do not take decision when you are angry
think twice, act wise

do not let someone becomes a priority in your life
when you are just an option in his/her life
relationship works best when they are balanced

never explain yourself to anyone
because the persons who like you do not need it
and
the persons who dislike you will not believe it

DIA BUKAN LAKI-LAKI SEJATI , DIA PENGECUT...



Dalam antropologi sosial, poligami merupakan praktik pernikahan kepada lebih dari satu suami atau istri (sesuai dengan jenis kelamin orang bersangkutan) sekaligus pada suatu saat (berlawanan dengan monogami, di mana seseorang memiliki hanya satu suami atau istri pada suatu saat).

Terdapat tiga bentuk poligami, yaitu poligini (seorang pria memiliki beberapa istri sekaligus), poliandri (seorang wanita memiliki beberapa suami sekaligus), dan pernikahan kelompok (bahasa Inggris: group marriage, yaitu kombinasi poligini dan poliandri). Ketiga bentuk poligami tersebut ditemukan dalam sejarah, namum poligini merupakan bentuk yang paling umum terjadi.




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DIA YANG PENGECUT

poligini selalu menyakitkan bagi perempuan
poligini tidak menyebabkan kebahagiaan
namun menimbulkan kebencian dan dendam
merasa dibohongi dan terhina
menyebabkan keraguan dan ketidakterimaan
berseminya ketidak-percayaan
dan pertengkaran yang berkelanjutan
penyesalan akan pernikahan dan bangkitnya jati dan harga diri
di sisi yang lain, menghidupkan kesombongan dan percaya diri yang tinggi
merasa terpilih dan menang
tapi semua itu bukan memberikan kebaikan dan menganugerahkan CINTA
karena
semuanya terpecah- terbelah dan tercabik
dan yang ada di dalamnya...suatu hari ..... pasti ingin lari
sejauh-jauh nya dan tidak ingin terlibat lagi
dalam tipu muslihat mengatasnamakan agama
dari sillahturami, cinta , sampai kebahagiaan
menjadi HANCUR LULUH PORAK PORANDA,
terkorban bathin dan kehidupan wajar
laki-laki sejati tidak akan menghancurkan perkawinannya
laki-laki sejati tidak akan menyakiti hati isteri dan anak-2 nya
laki-laki berpoligini secara semena-mena dan sembunyi-sembunyi...
adalah laki-laki PENGECUT dan tidak perlu lagi disayangi atau di cintai...
karena mereka bukanlah laki-laki terpilih
jangan buang waktu
tinggalkan mereka,
berkaryalah untuk mencapai kehidupan berkualitas
raihlah kehidupan yang berderajat
agar hatimu senang
dan dapat berdoa dengan baik

MARRIAGE QUOTE




a marriage is a journey through everlasting ocean
if one day you face a hurricane attacks your boat
with huge waves and giant winds
don't leave your boat and jump to the water
because you would be swallowed by the rough sea
and both you and the boat are gone
stay on your boat,struggle and stabilze the sail
the storm anyway will stop
and you will continue your journey with a new strength
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Benny Moerdani, (Indonesian)
his speech on his daughter's day of marriage
(translated by : Bunda)
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this is a quote i respect since it says the duty of marriage life
especially for a wife .....
that marriage is beautiful as well as full of responsibilities

WHAT IS IN A NAME - William Shakespeare




of course there is something behind a name
so give your children sweet names
as they are also a good prayer for them

IF YOU HAVE "LOVE"


if you have love in your heart
be a politician is not your way

"NANO" MY DOG

i love this dog ,
but i do not put it into my YM display image
for people not to think that i am a doggy :-)))

WIND BENEATH MY WINGS (westlife)




BY : WESTLIFE

"Wind Beneath My Wings"
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
It must have been cold there in my shadow,
to never have sunlight on your face.
You were content to let me shine, that's your way.
You always walked a step behind.So I was the one with all the glory,
while you were the one with all the strength.
A beautiful face without a name for so long.
A beautiful smile to hide the pain.
Did you ever know that you're my hero,
and everything I would like to be?
I can fly higher than an eagle,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings.
It might have appeared to go unnoticed,
but I've got it all here in my heart.
I want you to know I know the truth,
of course I know it.
I would be nothing without you.
Did you ever know that you're my hero?
You're everything I wish I could be.I could fly higher than an eagle,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings.
Did I ever tell you you're my hero?
You're everything,
everything I wish I could be.
Oh, and I, I could fly higher than an eagle,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings.
Oh, the wind beneath my wings.
You, you, you, you are the wind beneath my wings.
Fly, fly, fly away.
You let me fly so high.
Oh, you, you, you, the wind beneath my wings.
Oh, you, you, you, the wind beneath my wings.
Fly, fly, fly high against the sky,
so high I almost touch the sky.
Thank you, thank you,
thank God for you, the wind beneath my wings.

Our Great Expectations


The Diamond Heart
by Mihai & Bunda Marinescu

Each day we live, we break our heart...
Please, try to see beyond your fears,
Just tear all the bad dreams out,
And wipe your face of all the tears.

You will find shiny, happy days
together with the one you share
the moments of your life. Be blessed
for all the time you spend out there.

Together we shall praise the joy
and search the world inside and out,
And days and nights we'll do our best
to build in us the diamond heart.

And when my days will empty up,
Don't break your heart, don't be afraid,
Cause I'll be there, the other side,
And guard your joy for not to fade.

March 16, 2008

SUMPAH PALAPA


sworn by PATIH GAJAH MADA


Sira Gajah Mada pepatih amungkubumi tan ayun amukti palapa, sira Gajah Mada:

Lamun huwus kalah nusantara ingsun amukti palapa, lamun kalah ring Gurun, ring Seram, Ta├▒jungpura, ring Haru, ring Pahang, Dompo, ring Bali, Sunda, Palembang, Tumasik, samana ingsun amukti palapa

(in old javanese language)

THE KINGDOM I AM PROUD OF, MAJAPAHIT

MAJAPAHIT KINGDOM
Approximately was situated in East Java now
(around Jombang - Kediri)
Leaded by The KING HAYAMWURUK
from this Kingdom, my ethnic heritage grows

-bunda-

THE ASIANS I ADMIRE MOST, THE ASIANS WHO LOVED THEIR COUNTRY AND NATION BY DOING THEIR BEST

PATIH GAJAH MADA
(Nusantara)
died 1286 (saka) or 1364 (AD)
in Makadipura (Tongas)
East Java
(see Makadipura as follows)


SOEKARNO

The First President of The Republic of Indonesia

born 6 June 1901 (Blitar) - died 21 June 1970 (Jakarta)

INDONESIA


RABINDRANATH TAGORE

(1861-1941)

GREAT POET & SONG WRITER

Bengalese -India

TENZING NORGAY

(sherpa)

1914-1986

NEPAL

the first factual person who reached the top of Mount Everest

some minutes before a New Zealander , Edmund Hillary,

and Hillary was the second person who reached the top Mt. Everest

and if you want

you may say Hillary was the first white-man who reached that mountain

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/everest/history/norgay.html

our love is torn by miles, not by choice






Our love is torn by miles, not by choice.
Soon, soon, my darling, I'll be coming home.
At night I play your body and your voice,
But soon the hands and cries will be your own.
I want to love you all the hours we've missed,
And do the things I've fantasized for you:
Kiss you all the places my mind's kissed,
And put you everywhere I've wanted to.
My only fear's desiring you so much
That dream will overwhelm reality;
Time, for both of us, must temper touch
So love can once again be slow and free.
My mind's already half insane with pleasure;
Soon, soon my body will consume its treasure.

- me -

BILA DIA JAUH DAN AKU MERASA SEPI dan CINTAKU PADANYA SEMAKIN KUAT




bila dia jauh dan aku merasa sepi ....
bila merasa amat kangen ....
harus percaya dan kuatkan cinta ....

- me -


INDONESIA KU





RIGHT OR WRONG IT'S MY COUNTRY, THAT IS TRUE !
I WILL ALWAYS DO THINGS BEST FOR MY NATION
KU CINTA PADAMU INDONESIA KU
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KETIKA KU JAUH DARI NEGARAKU,
KETIKA KU BERADA DI NEGARA BERSALJU,
KETIKA KU DIANTARA BANGSA DAN BUDAYA LAIN,
KETIKA KU MELAMUN JAUH PULANG,
KETIKA KU INGAT JALAN DI SAWAH SELEPAS HUJAN,
KETIKA DISANA SUARA BELALANG DAN BEBEK DI AIR
KETIKA KU INGAT DIPANTAI YANG SELALU ADA ANGIN KECIL DAN SUARA TIUPAN POHON KELAPA
ALIRAN DINGIN PADA BAHU DAN MUKAKU MERAMBAT MENJADI AIRMATA
AKU KANGEN PADA INDONESIA KU
AKU KANGEN PADA BANGSA KU
AKU KANGEN PADA BUDAYA KU
- me -

to love and to be loved trully



love relationship should be peaceful and beautiful,
once he cheated you,
think it over to continue your love relationship,
because he might do the same next time,
and you will be worried and suffered forever
- me -

THE ONLY KEY FOR MY HEART

it is only one key among many which could open my heart
I LOVE YOU ..... THE ONE AND ONLY
-me-

HOW IS THE DISTANCE BETWEEN LOVE and HATE ?



THE DISTANCE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE
IS ONLY A SLIGHT PIECE OF HAIR
-me-